The Problem Calendar
Coming to iOS & Android

Two private spaces.
One shared journey.

A relationship journal for couples. Write privately on a calendar you share, then talk about only what you both chose to bring.

See how it works What your partner can see

Coming to iOS & Android. Free to start.

Maya’s calendar in the app: November with small marks on the days she wrote something, and her private entry for the 10th, marked “Only you see this”.
The app’s Check-ins screen: a weekly check-in planned for today at 7:30 PM, and “Nothing is shared until each of you chooses.”
Screens from the app, with sample content.

You share a calendar, not a diary.

Each of you writes down the small things as they happen: something on your mind, something you appreciated, something to talk about, or a thought just for you.

Your partner can see that you added a moment on a date, never what it says. When you’re both ready, you meet on a rhythm you agreed on, and bring only what you chose.

How the couples check-in works

From a thought you can’t quite say, to something you both agree on.

“How do I even say this?”

Write it down, just for you.

Capture the moment while it’s fresh. It starts private, and stays private unless you decide otherwise. There’s room for the good things, too.

The app’s new moment screen: “What’s on your mind?”, four moment types, a private note being written, and “Only you can see this.”

“Not tonight. We’re both exhausted.”

Meet on a rhythm you agreed on.

Choose every three days, weekly or every two weeks. Before each check-in, prepare on your own and pick what you want to bring. You can pause any time.

The app’s private preparation screen: “Before we come together…”, with prompts for something appreciated, something on my mind, and what I hope for.

“Didn’t we already talk about this?”

Keep what you agree on.

An agreement only exists when you both approve the same words. Come back to it, reflect privately on how it’s going, and choose what to share.

The app’s Our Progress screen: the next check-in, and two agreements marked Agreed, “One phone-free dinner a week” and “Each of us plans dinner twice a week”.
The app’s new moment screen: “What’s on your mind?”, four moment types, a private note being written, and “Only you can see this.”
The app’s private preparation screen: “Before we come together…”, with prompts for something appreciated, something on my mind, and what I hope for.
The app’s Our Progress screen: the next check-in, and two agreements marked Agreed, “One phone-free dinner a week” and “Each of us plans dinner twice a week”.

Screens from the app, with sample content. The app never writes or shares an entry for you.

Privacy

Private by default. Made for two.

Every moment starts in your own space. Who can read it, and whether AI may help with it, are two separate choices, and both are yours.

Only me

The default. Your partner sees that you added a moment on a date, never its words, type or tone. You can turn even that off.

Private AI reflection

Optional. AI helps you think it through, privately. Nothing reaches your partner.

Prepare a talking point

Turn a moment into words for your next check-in. Nothing is shared until you approve it.

Share the exact entry

A deliberate choice, one entry at a time, confirmed before your partner can read it.

AI is optional, needs your permission, and never decides who is right. Sharing an entry with your partner does not give AI permission to use it.

The calendar

Room for the good things, too.

Each kind of moment has its own small mark, so a month reads like a journal, not a scoreboard. No streaks, no scores, no counting who did what.

  • Something on my mind
  • Something I appreciated
  • Something we should discuss
  • Just reflecting
The app’s month view for November: marks on the 2nd, 4th, 6th, 8th and 10th, today’s check-in day outlined, and a key explaining each mark.

Free to start. One plan for both of you.

Preview a billing period

Free

$0

  • Private journal and shared calendar
  • Regular check-ins and agreements
  • Reminders, privacy controls, export and deletion
  • 5 private AI reflections each, and 1 AI-assisted check-in together

Premium

$59.99a year for both of you · about $5 a month

  • Everything in Free
  • More private AI reflection and preparation
  • More AI-assisted check-ins
  • Wording help and journey summaries

Planned launch pricing in USD. 14 days free on either plan, then $59.99 a year. Renews automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before renewal. Or choose “Not now” in the app for a 14-day Premium trial with no card and no automatic charge.

Questions, answered plainly.

Can I start before my partner joins?

Yes. You can reflect on your own for as long as you like. Check-ins start once you’re both in, on a rhythm you both agree to.

Can my partner read what I write?

Only if you share a specific entry and confirm it. By default your partner can see that you added a moment on a date, and nothing about its contents, type or tone. You can turn even that off.

What does the AI actually see?

AI help is optional and requires your permission. For private reflection, it uses the moment you selected and relevant preferences you allowed. For shared preparation, you choose eligible moments and approve the proposed wording. The shared review uses only what you both approved. Your partner never sees your private AI response, and you can turn AI help off.

Can we take a break?

Yes. Pause or snooze check-ins anytime. Your partner is only told that check-ins are paused.

Is this therapy?

No. It’s a reflection and communication tool. It doesn’t diagnose, judge, or replace professional support. If something feels beyond a guided conversation, the app points you to real help.

When can we download it?

The Problem Calendar is in development for iOS and Android. There are no store downloads yet, and a release date hasn’t been announced.

Small moments. Stronger us.

Coming to iOS and Android. Start on your own, find your rhythm together.